Reply Delete. Do a variety of things and one of them will become a passion. But passion can be misdirected — and it often is. It is the driving force that pushes people toward things. It’s not like I have any hobbies of my own, either. True loneliness is giving up on hobbies and passions since you have no one to share them with anyway. No gym no health club. None of my friends have hobbies. They’re the good stuff. True loneliness is having nobody to help you when you're down. If you are pretty relaxed when you do the activity and you don’t feel strongly about it, it’s more likely a hobby than a passion. Feeling passion or drive is a great source of fulfilment for a human. If you have no passions, you just haven’t tried hard enough. Not feeling them can be a heavy weight and a source of stress. … I very briefly had a partner years ago that had no hobbies going on. Who on earth wants to be someone else’s only source of happiness and they always depend on you to give them all your free time. I totally agree too that you ABSOLUTELY need to have hobbies and passions that do not involve your partner. I literally have no activities I enjoy doing, and been that way for years. Studies have shown that having a hobby can actually make your life longer. Sure, I have interests. Even passions. Hobbies are simple. Yes, passion is useful to have. No bike riding. If you want to be miserable - that is a choice. ... Don't wait for passion to show up and then do something. True loneliness is having no friends to go see that new movie with. At least not in the conventional sense anyway. Thread starter zav943; Start date Apr 2, 2011; zav943 Well-known member. To start a nice "fire" of drive and passion, you may find out you have a spark, but no combustible, or some combustible but no spark. 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